When applied in the context of relationship therapy, a CBT-informed approach focuses on addressing cognitive and behavioral factors that may contribute to intimacy concerns or dysfunctions.
As a Clinical Sexologist, my approach to sexual health is rooted in a holistic and affirming philosophy that values the diversity and dignity of human sexuality. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and inclusive space for clients to address their traumas and relationship concerns openly.
I believe in sex-positive therapy, respecting all consensual expressions. Cultural competence is important, acknowledging the impact of diverse backgrounds on emotional attitudes and experiences. My goal is to empower clients with knowledge, skills, and tools to enhance their satisfaction, communication, and overall wellness.
I specialize in working with individuals who have experienced violations or wanting to reconcile with their sexuality and aim to help them overcome trauma triggers and barriers to intimacy wellness. I integrate evidence-based practices and a collaborative therapeutic alliance to support clients in achieving their personal health goals.
Recognizing the interconnectedness of mental, emotional, and physical aspects of intimacy, I strive to address these holistically. My dedication to providing ethical, compassionate, and effective sexological care is maintained through ongoing self-reflection and professional development.
I advocate for whole-body wellness education, destigmatization, and social justice in the field of sexuality. Fostering a healthy relationship with one’s healing is vital for overall well-being, self-acceptance, and the promotion of positive cultures.
I am wholeheartedly committed to fostering a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space for individuals on their journey toward healing and self-discovery. My commitment is rooted in the belief that every person is unique, possessing inherent strengths and resilience.
I am dedicated to actively listening, understanding, and collaborating with my clients to co-create meaningful and personalized strategies for growth. I pledge to approach each session with empathy, cultural sensitivity, and a genuine commitment to promoting mental well-being. Together, we will work towards building a path to a more fulfilling and balanced life.”
At Shades Oasis, we believe that pleasure plays a vital role in whole-body wellness. Our goal is to help our clients achieve optimal health and wellness through customized plans and ongoing support. We understand that creating positive experiences that trigger the release of oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine can lead to a flood of self-healing in the body. That’s why we offer tools and education to help you discover new ways to incorporate pleasure into your life and reap the benefits of a happier, healthier you.
Developed by Debra Shade, PEET is a holistic program of care that integrates pleasure-based education with guided exposure experiences to restore muscle memory, rebuild autonomy, and reconnect individuals to life before physical violation.
Through compassionate guidance and intentional practice, PEET helps you reclaim your body, your boundaries, and your right to experience pleasure … on purpose.
Take the first step today, book a session with Debra Shade and begin your PEET journey toward whole-body healing and empowered living.
